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Monday, April 13, 2009 @ 12:28 p.m.
Love is not about Shouting, its about listening. mum, dad n mei mei went korea thursday night... will only be back coming thurs... i guess they r more or less enjoying themselves.. anyway, when i met up with the poly mates last week, my friend, we call her ms W called me halfway... i knew smth was wrong, but could put a finger to wad the actual problem was... but i knew it has got smth to do with her bf.... finally got the whole story on wed night... thou im not too sure if its the whole story but at least its her version of the story... apparently, ms W already had some issues with her bf we call Mr J.. Mr J is pretty MCP. he kinda demands her to do certain things, n somehow, in the moment of fun n under Ms W's misery, he twisted her ears in full view of all his friends... he says he was just fooling ard with her... but thats not fooling ard when there is pain, n when there s a person's dignity and pride in it.... Man have their pride, their ego, n their dignity so to speak... but hey fella.... ladies have that too... love in this world does not matter who is older, or who is the MAN of the relationship. love is about accomodating with each other, understanding each other and just getting along... its not about i DEMAND U do this for me.... i WANT u to do this for me, or I DONT CARE WAD U FEEL... thats not love... thats ultimate possesion.. love does not allow u to shout at ur partner and threatening him/her... love does not make u have the right to HATE him/her... that is a very strong word, and im sure i wont be able to handle this situation if baby told me he hates me... maybe its my personality that works this way, but i never allow another person regardless of who he/she is... (other den my parents) to shout at me.. fact is... even my sisters cant shout at me... cos i will definately shout back at them... so no one gets their chance of shouting at me... life should go without people shouting at each other... Ms W is not a slave of ur life... she is ur gf, not ur SLAVE! respect her the amount that u yearn for her to respect u with.... love her the same way she loves u, n at the same time, AGE DOES NOT MATTER!!! dont use words like im older then u to try n "SCARE" people... thats so not respecting.. thats just plain OVER-RULE.. n that in a relationship would never work out properly... anyway, i have been mean... i told Ms W to leave Mr J. n last i heard, they r back together, life is back as per normal, n Ms W will leave him if he does that to her again... not too sure wad happens after that, but im sure they will go a long way, n Mr J will still be mean to Ms W, n Ms W will still complain, n wadever the case, they still stick ard with each other... cos i learn.... they r willing parties... which thereafter, makes me feel stupid for trying to persuade her to give him up... we noe she wont... n wads the point?! thats where i felt stupid for trying to convince her to do smth that i noe she wont do.... anyway...... story is over, n we should not talk about it again.... |